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0:12this program is brought to you by freedom from fear
0:15the nonprofit organization dedicated to helping people
0:18who suffer from inside these and depression
0:29resembled school quiet kids last references
0:34there’s no reason outsiders and every high school blended blues and felt like i was going
0:38outside of the outsiders
0:41then how about that whole originally speaks of meetings
0:44the athlete kenyon
0:46on something has to do
0:48ference
0:49we’ve all people like this before
0:52and we will suffer through our own share of china’s in your presence and everyday
1:00bid for something
1:00designers goes way beyond what you have ever had
1:05this documentary will take you on a journey into the world people who suffer
1:10from social inside the disorder
1:13the third most common mental disorder in our country after depression
1:18and substance abuse
1:21glitches and feeling to suffer from this disorder
1:25feeling terrible life in this situation
1:28how does it affect family
1:30steamed music an alarm situation
1:35disability and samples of my name is now ninety and sent
1:42will announce isn’t
1:44recognized
1:46described realistic something done
1:53and how can you get help
1:55somebody does have social anxiety disorder
1:58they should know that they’re is terry
2:01and treatment that’s very safe and well tolerated
2:04but i wanted to come
2:05pandemonium condominium a lot of friends of mine
2:09they’d like to move up in my career i really think i have a lot to operate just have to
2:14get past this trough of fear
2:16one of the things that strikes me as a as a result of software tential in a group of
2:20people
2:21defended the most sensitive man most hearing
2:24let’s take those are the people we need to get home
2:39the nineteen of them i mean
2:41giving him my coffee
2:43primarily getting nervous
2:46and procrastinate he’s done a lot of time doing stuff around the house
2:50you know i have to be there but i try to bring on involving a little comfort zones
2:54finds a can
2:57isn’t getting to work if you need any building that’s starts to get sick
3:03mistress plant
3:05at the time he was at work
3:08benefit directly
3:10and pretty much a mass
3:14and one of the stairs walking down the hall i’m just reading every moment dividend
3:20in the social sites where it is one of six meantime dishonest billionaire recognizes
3:26country and psychology the section the most common
3:30is also known as social phobia
3:33social anxiety disorder affects millions of people worldwide
3:38because someone like and resilience and sings i d denounced any social situation
3:44behind you one hundred someone and any lead and i think that in a city and finances he
3:49he
3:50people with social anxiety disorder become fairy
3:53overly sensitive
3:55what other people are thinking about them
3:58interestingly they’ll often come in the office and say hi paranoid
4:01but they’re not parimal
4:03what it is as they have tremendous interpersonal sensitivity so every time to read and other
4:07people they think that people judging and because they think they’re actually doing
4:11that
4:12looking stupid looking incompetent
4:14inarticulate having people criticize them even if it’s not verbalize to the idea that
4:20people are judging you and criticizing you potentially or negatively evaluating you know
4:26is a is a huge fear for these people
4:29there’s a range of severity some people’s
4:32what habit to more modest degree
4:34can function but was enormous effort in pay
4:37there maybe can work patel to something that’s political political rather than have interact
4:41a lot
4:42without the people terra havens performer
4:46intimate relationship
4:47it’s very hard to socialize
4:52for some people
4:53the disorder manifests itself only in performance situations
4:57for others permeates every aspect but the lines in stream to streaming isolated
5:04they don’t work for him to fund disability open supported by their families
5:09should be free to use public restrooms to become a freaking restaurants because they
5:12are free people may be watching them and they make
5:15spill their food
5:16per child
5:17uh… we see people who are free to enforce a check in front of the teller because of
5:21the tellers watching their hands stitch
5:24well i did check out line settlers portion
5:29have been an interest going into the storage facility
5:32analyst and a half
5:35allies internet silicon
5:39you know i mean really looking as though you know think
5:43how we feel like i’m
5:45you know under spotlight
5:49james lives at home with his parents and has more than forty years
5:54just being out of his house longer than an hour is sometimes more than james kunder
6:00social anxiety disorders taken over his life
6:04but don’t give up a lot of time so if you just heard a freak into speakers
6:08it just because of the city hanging out happy new afternoon inferior
6:13jenny sony access for a couple of people in it doesn’t have been heard of that
6:19we’ve all experienced enormous shards the suffering from social anxiety disorder
6:25being shot
6:26are two very different things tried people may be uncomfortable or not like doing certain
6:32things
6:33but they are able to do that
6:34force the people’s social anxiety disorder get these actual panic attacks and really
6:39cannot do these things
6:41while socially anxious people are often limited binder disorder
6:45decidedly an important role in society
6:48marcia shaadi rewards with a great deal with dignity
6:52the economic rewards those who like to work along
6:55and computer programmers
6:57just poets writers
7:00t_s_ eliot was a very shiite child in a very shy adult new so he close the door wrote poetry
7:07in plays in one nobel prize in literature its
7:11aliya problem was over the top
7:15incapacitated when it keisha struggling to do the things that we want to do with whitewater
7:20drops of supplies you teachers from were captives as writing relationship the problem
7:28abortion realists
7:30wasn’t up a particular meeting
7:32where i was having a panic attack and
7:36that is this still coming to the feeling of this
7:39being frozen
7:41any one time i had it all
7:44has a free forwarded anybody inside
7:47just just waiting just having this kind of being outside my body cast looking down on
7:57feeling a paralegal life-and-death situation basically
8:00mixed totally unrealistic
8:04but that’s that’s how i feel inside
8:07chris is a computer program
8:10he started a social anxiety disorder website to help others who are going to struggles
8:15similar to his own
8:16right after years of battling with social anxiety
8:20chris considers himself
8:22ninety percent better
8:24and my feelers
8:25overcome a lot of the disorder
8:27and i want to show other people
8:30that they can do the same
8:32trip come a long way from where it was in the past
8:35camelot amid the panel is not a hundred percent urban people to handle a lot better
8:42barb knows socialist
8:43lady as a psychologist
8:45anticipation
8:47she lectures on the importance of self-acceptance and overcoming inside
8:51rashi struggles to find that acceptance within yourself lifestyle psychologists actually
8:58be able to have had a nice up for together
9:00uh… just feeling like
9:03that somehow that’s not cool you know that
9:06but you know i’m sure
9:08doctors get sick and have to go doctors and get in about a self why a wooden psychologists
9:13have
9:14mental health problems too
9:16one of the hardest things for some of the social anxiety do
9:20is get up in front of an audience
9:24barbara is doing just that
9:27giving a presentation on social anxiety disorder for the general public
9:33they insist the nation and ending at speech is really the worst bernie
9:38and sometimes on all that reluctance and of
9:42you know
9:43sometimes get angry
9:45frustrated like
9:47why do i have to do this but i don’t really have to understand seemed to them
9:51part of it is is crowds act that’s life and i keep doing it
9:56today’s presentation is about people who are painfully shy
10:01it’s also an hour recess or inside a disorder or social phobia
10:06but this presentation is more
10:09then just about social anxiety disorder
10:12it’s about courage and then try something that i haven’t signed up for her
10:16story i’m gonna try
10:18and to share some of my own
10:22experiences let’s go they are
10:26so i can go around and tell everybody that
10:28now i have this problem with anxiety and you know
10:32i don’t do that
10:34i did well in school academically and i never said a word
10:38alloys that in the back of the class hoping that teacher wouldn’t colony
10:43if there is ever the slightest can’t that class participation would be involved in a
10:47day high fell like i was literally going to die
10:51if there’s anything i hope i can pass on to my son is the important lesson i’ve learned
10:57it’s going to take a rest unless you take the risk to break out of your conference in
11:02to try new things here world stay small and you never know what joy you might be missing
11:08but
11:20when i’m done
11:21hands over her
11:24a lot of times i just feel that students really
11:28but also there’s been times square on kelso starlight five licenses mike i think and uh…
11:36some nights
11:37insulating it’s just been so draining that
11:40you know i’m just kind of
11:42analysis staff
11:45suggests that
11:53kisses directly about how the faithful plans
11:59and his father and a defending his bed
12:03insanity is a registered staying
12:15over the last two decades
12:17experts and explore what causes this disorder
12:20we certainly know that it once and families so that
12:24people who have
12:25first-degree relatives parents for example who have the illness are more likely to get
12:29it with other people
12:30but that all these plans apart of the reason people gathered many people have a situation
12:35where maybe they were humiliated
12:38criticized rejected
12:40uh… evaluated for early socially and then they felt the loss of control
12:45and they felt embarrassed
12:48and there was a lot of shame
12:50that they experienced in that moment and then what happens
12:54is taking more and more fearful of those situations
12:57and still more appointees plays for just negative perceptions situations like this
13:04and so they started shaking and an developer almost like a conditioned response to their
13:10feet
13:14adults
13:15for adolescents that a psychiatrist
13:17jerry have social anxiety or socially
13:20stomach wiring relief
13:22adam any special temperamental or genetic bias but some did
13:27the temperamental bias which is inherited
13:31is not for shyness
13:34what you hear it
13:37is a tendency
13:39took over-react to anything that’s new
13:42novel unfamiliar
13:44we know that a particular circuitry of the brain
13:48of animals is reliably treated with those animals experience fear in ticular laboratory
13:55situations record condition fear
13:58and specifically involves very structured called the onondaga which is kind of the central
14:03part of the brain for
14:04the response was
14:07this structure
14:09billy spires really do you have a nice american interests and expansion this sign
14:16spending
14:17personally lives with
14:19and we think
14:21at the children were born with this biased overreacted novelty
14:26inherits neurochemistry that makes this drug the middle and very excitable in a groundbreaking
14:34study doctor jerome cagan of harvard university
14:37videotaped the reactions of infants
14:40to unfamiliar stimuli
14:42his research suggests summit have a temperamental biased to experience inside
14:51usage of chemistry
14:54we show those infants
14:56interesting stimuli they never saw before like mobiles colorful tall
15:02moved in front of their face
15:05if you’ve had this chemistry
15:09to show to smolder
15:10and begin to cry because we have passed your threshold
15:15that is a sign
15:16that you have inherited chemistry indian davilla that has rendered its very excitable
15:23the air for for the rest of your life
15:26you should be biased to react to unfamiliar things
15:31that initial restraint
15:36doing it
15:39is you had a picture in yes
15:44isn’t getting the best
15:46case here with us
15:48kayla is seven she suffers from a disorder called selective needs as an
15:53which is a form of social anxiety disorder
15:56there are some children
15:58that just manifestation of opiates way they just literally shut down
16:02and they deal with their voices that’s their easiest way of not communicating not interacting
16:07if i’m an overtime they learned except a learned behavior today struck down and they don’t
16:12speak so no attention will be brought to them interesting everyday
16:20yes
16:21for now
16:22investment everyday
16:36endured rattled
16:40second that’s here
16:41out and back to you
16:43these children want so desperately to talk
16:46makes for instance their words just don’t come out they can’t speak
16:50its stock price had little kids tell me the destructive throughout their stock in the
16:54chest batons playing tricks on them their lips one open up right their mouth just doesn’t
16:59work that brady stein and not to talk uh…
17:05much later in the classroom
17:07it’s fairy tale
17:10to see her struggle
17:11and not
17:12field interactivity and it’s not unlike like they do and um…
17:17suspects manner
17:19does this work it was diagnosed
17:21sherry was filled with frustration and anger
17:25action memorabilia personally to the national contest in me
17:31nine million activists some kind of control that she was doing this summer some purpose
17:37this child was suffering from
17:39teaching scientists uninteresting and it’s often difficult for parents it’s out of these
17:45children have social phobia of selected me to send
17:47lending because the helmet comfortable and they’re totally fine cash
17:53fasting for us here
17:54the stubborn
17:56um… s they’re very sort of times now
18:01hat
18:04here and i std sherri a severed from the site is very serious he she didn’t associate her
18:10feelings of fear and he was behavioral
18:13then one day he had to give a speech to a classroom over fears
18:18in reality hit
18:20feared that over my body union is clearly feeling sick of sweating and
18:26the national pastime explain to me and my car makers islamic understand every single
18:31day
18:32world scene
18:34then started cases this anxiety sporadic terry it’s passed on from one family member to the
18:38next
18:39so when these parents find out that this intensities children have
18:43part due to anxiety it makes tends to be step back and realize that this is made this is
18:47my brother this is necessary
18:49go on the same as the right job is going through the way i want to know what i’m feeling
18:54it’s just been and real
18:56higher you’re from the events so so much about myself
18:59he helps me to understand myself better
19:02and as they have stayed understand kayla fifty-eight
19:06turned and nine
19:09many is still a specimen sample actor star friendship
19:14because killer has come in self so far this year
19:18analytic credit cards to natalie into
19:22her teacher mrs sector
19:28k_c_l_
19:30his children to the binary our grandchildren
19:32because of a twenty-two speaking for the and that’s what you see with kayla bc taylor have
19:37invited with natalie
19:38patrons senate paris nursery school
19:43a lesson
19:45the
19:51don’t can i meet as high disinterest seriously celestino ke k_d_ laing
20:00deals come a long way
20:02she’s got differences
20:04although she speaks with natalie
20:06but in order for her to fully recover
20:08dr mun has suggested that she take antidepressant medication
20:13respect the environment is medication
20:15anyway so that we think that i a minimum wage on a much more receptive when their anxieties
20:20lower
20:20braveheart’s perform
20:22the things that we need them to do
20:25once kayla becomes more confident uncomfortable classroom
20:29she will be slowly taken off of medicaid
20:31eight prognosis of selecting eighty kid from anxiety expecting is excellent the children
20:37of the consequences
20:39so if we can give them the coping skills and develop behavioral techniques
20:43to be able to deal with a stressful situation there it will be carried out over into their
20:47life as they get older a
20:50nationalistic insensitive way and i know that
20:54really recognize that we haven’t had any help for her
20:58insisting on condescending and each
21:02uncivil hopefully have to go through
21:05did he know the shoes that antidote
21:09scale is fortunate
21:11she’s growing up in a time when the doctors and families are recognizing this disorder
21:16in children
21:18but for socially pictures of those like chris
21:21the diagnosis sixties than when he chris’s visiting his parent’s home for the first time
21:27since he started treatment for social anxiety disorders
21:32the conversations reserved painful memories of along with child does documented by his
21:37mother pottery
21:38in her diary bhai ccd on through this
21:42there’s a number of times when
21:45thank you mentioned shaadi
21:48and i mean even one particular place where i’m actually
21:51concern
21:52and about chris’s personality
21:54he didn’t want to levy yaar itne
21:57on last summer
21:59time he wouldn’t talk radio market out there s
22:02he will go to the meters houses and had trouble with family school library school
22:11yeah i know there were some problems because they did
22:13the so-called remembered productivity
22:16bus stop in a recent ones as treatment for some reason
22:20i was still on on the other side there was some sort
22:24there’s another aspect
22:25in iraq family
22:27i have cousins etc
22:30social anxiety situations but i have to ask the infected phobias
22:35graham i couldn’t walk around and block unless she went score you were with her because her
22:40relates would be like rubber
22:42anti couldn’t go on a bus
22:45uh… they all had heart palpitations anxiety attacks
22:49if he cannot
22:50situation that has
22:52affecting
22:54just about all any examples of my name is now coming down to secondary generations
23:00may require
23:02grand jury to think that you were experiencing the same thing
23:05analysts would love to try to help her with it
23:09social anxiety affects more than the people who suffer from
23:13it also has an impact on everyone loves interested
23:17so you think you’ve got anything when it came after christmas
23:20buildings times of sand
23:22that he has spent so much capability so much intelligence
23:27beautiful
23:28woman aquino has everything in the world calling for
23:33but usually means that they could be party distinction we need people for me to watch
23:38is somebody out that i care so deeply about
23:41analogies
23:43thanks delta com
23:45unclean asking unprofessional
23:47all of these thoughts my first reaction is to
23:50is safe
23:52just crazy
23:53i think it’s hard because i always seemed so much
23:56morning presence she sees herself
24:00here
24:02latino answers and scientists ordering didn’t have a word for anything anyways
24:08parents
24:10depressed
24:11brandy
24:13dubbed everything my parents’ life sentence
24:18time grandson just leave it alone
24:21done on
24:25and
24:29done as soon as that
24:31we analyzed and statements in the nineties
24:36manan
24:40school yearbook in rinse on letter in there
24:47plan to kill myself in a certain point instantly
24:57in high school and we have too many friends it was the last more than some of the other
25:01kids think training effect on a lot beat up a lot
25:05especially tough dealing with this disorder and oblivion tvguide because
25:10we don’t want to show our weaknesses and
25:14with the social anxiety
25:16being shy and reserved that’s a weakness arriba arriba partner partner one uh… quite rightly
25:24compensate in other areas
25:26by convincing skydiving get involved in sports bungee jumping a lot of resistance from presumably
25:35disappears
25:40there’s always an outsider’s area high school
25:43mean knows that felt like i was in the house side of the outsiders
25:47consistently along
25:50overthrown
25:51that everything i was going through it and went through
25:54and it was tough suggesting that other people around him
25:58at least some one rendering of justice
26:02you know get through it all with
26:06financier himself herself
26:11if it means a lot of experience and skills
26:14came to high school
26:19women looking at colleges maintains the easiest thing and i think that the closest thing that
26:24possibly could
26:25wing you know the time and money
26:28shipman twenty percent and challenging and exciting
26:31and i would just like in the school
26:33diseases thing i could think of and you had a typing and i do all that stuff
26:37i wouldn’t be threatened i would be challenged it would be easy
26:43further progress in college
26:46would miss my classes that would
26:48it’s live and how it all day here
26:50still are depression
26:53a trickle in
26:56vendor who when they made some of the anxiety who will be more comfortable talking to people
27:03one study showed that
27:04median age of uh… onset of social inside disorder was age thirteen
27:09that means that there were a lot of shoddy anxious socially inhibited children who were
27:13probably labeled by their teachers as a model student
27:17because they’re not disrupted serve anybody there quiet
27:21it’s probably not recognize that these children are terrified to raise their hand
27:26have a lot of trouble
27:27making friends because they get nervous in the social situations and these children have
27:32a very very high risk to grow up to continue to have these problems developed oppression
27:37and also develop substance abuse problems because a large number of people socialize
27:42i disorder realize unfortunate alcohol is one way to calm you down and the social situation
27:48so we really want people to pay attention to this even in school age children
27:53for socially anxious to show them like pam
27:56chris
27:58james
27:59barbara
28:00there was no diagnoses
28:04constantly cited cause them to develop other disorders like depression
28:09the way to deal with the kids
28:10shyness they were told
28:12as the pull yourself up by your boot straps
28:15ditto it’s not a
28:17purpose
28:19this her attitude
28:20for people with mental health problems the heathrow problems and emotional problems
28:25so that i think the people tend to think well this is just the way i did
28:28and i’m going to play a status trying to get help for
28:35which is a difference in western europe
28:38and she had one tv channel on a tv
28:42and also in this commercial came on or business lang’s i-eighty series it takes
28:47stats to help you get past the social anxiety instead of those things sometimes
28:54is that i got its name community
28:59i started to cry
29:00candidacy
29:03does that mean for it
29:08so many years
29:16there is any important something existed
29:19and it looked like it to get home
29:30social anxiety disorder was miss understood for years until nineteen eighty five
29:35when doctor michael liebowitz published a paper about its devastating effects
29:40dr liebowitz start the first anxiety disorders clinic in the united states
29:45the last fifteen years with recognized at the store
29:48we’ve described
29:49we understand something about them out
29:51a lot about how common it is the population
29:54we can really help most of the people affected by two significant degree
30:00yes at the new york state psychiatric institute
30:04a research team is looking into the brain whole new way
30:08utilizing pets
30:09animation they search for the answer two opposing question part of the neuro transmitters dopamine
30:16serotonin affect patients with social anxiety disorder
30:21will transmit is working on women’s that helped us in your signal from one hair on
30:26finances
30:28part of the effect of sin
30:32well when you wake up in the morning
30:34it’s because certain nerves are flooding your brain
30:37with the neurotransmitter serotonin
30:41or when you exercise
30:42your nerve endings released
30:45and there are transmitted helps muscles
30:47more easily
30:49near the transmitters fixed everything
30:53thought we had
30:54and they have a great influenced by her sense of the weldhead
31:00rethinking the neurotransmitter as an electronic messenger who lived fasteners that no one
31:07here on a lot of interest to throughout the entire money woohoo
31:11in order to do its job he has to move through a small gap between around so hopefully synonyms
31:17will get absorbed by the next level although sometimes for reasons scientist don’t you
31:25understand
31:26there was no
31:28then when it doesn’t
31:30people experiencing a myriad of
31:33including the effects the social inside a disorder
31:39the reason i really am focusing now on serotonin is justice success
31:43on the serotonin reuptake inhibitors as regards which are all karlena isn’t really a social
31:48phobia dr king uses text and images
31:52faithful cpc of the group of anti-depressant medications
31:56known as the s_s_ archives
31:58help her on the streets or serotonin
32:02he starts but doing the baseline that’s true
32:04confirmations prior to treatment
32:06with the s_s_ guard road
32:08peroxides
32:10and the second column here we’ve seen the baseline pet scan or the first pet scan it
32:14was done before treatment was instituted
32:16and the hot areas or the brightest areas here are the areas of the greatest finding the
32:22greatest density of the serotonin transporter
32:25after three to six months sitting with prop sixteen ennui skiing these patients these
32:30images show a significant reduction in hot hot spots or brightness indicating that those
32:37sites now are occupied by the drug proxy steam
32:41does suggest that in this with this trend that there is very very high occupancy at
32:45this point sides and secondly seaman mechanism of action of how this drug is working in the
32:50brain
32:51all the patients really was feeling significantly better and actually function better in their
32:56social lives and uh… really overall
32:59on washington watch watch the sanctions
33:05translucent disorder shows some difference in symptoms around the world
33:10dr roberto luis fernandez studies the impact of the social anxiety disorder on different
33:15cultural
33:16he’s found some surprising distinctions
33:19insemination groups for example
33:22the concern is much more about the impact have your symptoms on somebody else how they
33:29feel embarrassed
33:31or uncomfortable by you
33:33whereas here in the united states it’s often about feeling embarrassed yourself
33:37cultural differences influence how we view social anxiety disorder
33:41the awesomeness
33:48u_s_ latinos or latin americans in general
33:51dancing is very important
33:53a lot of people and see coming because they’re concerned about feeling embarrassed about
33:58the way they dance in front of it
34:04there’s been no new for new immigrants social anxiety can be treated as a reaction to a
34:11foreign environment
34:13people who might resume might have been in their countries of origin so much i did not
34:19to the degree were would cause the problem
34:22but after migration the mines feel much more difficult in social interactions
34:27because they have to
34:29deal with all new sense of humor all sandwich they may not completely know about our feel
34:34comfortable with
34:35worse if they had uh… not been in that migrant situation demand never have been has the simple
34:40reason that the real reason have received the diagnosis they to kinds of treatment
34:46that have been proven
34:48my good rigorous scientific studies to be effective
34:51one is a type of
34:52psychotherapy call cognitive-behavioral psychotherapy the other part
34:57medications particularly
34:59medications that we
35:00usually called antidepressant medications although we now know that they’re useful for
35:04anxieties well medications they gave a little bit
35:08region terms of how potent they are
35:10but the cognitive therapy looks more durable and some specifics if you stop
35:14uh… so maybe which combine the two to really get the best of both worlds
35:19medication and psychotherapy
35:21are intended to change the person
35:24and the person is
35:27par biology
35:29etc part psychology
35:31doctor richard hundred director of the adult anxiety disorder clinic at temple university
35:37uses cognitive behavior therapy with socially anxious adults in this form of therapy
35:44patients learn to change the way they feel by changing the way they think blog she won’t
35:49go out with me
35:51children changed her mind by the time michael
35:56those very very negative predictions
35:59and the outcome interest for us
36:01shikha hit
36:03pretty amazing different those things can visit
36:06uh… this therapy assumes that part of the anxiety response can adults affected by this
36:11disorder
36:12this olympic figure
36:14and like many other learned behaviors it can be modified training and very important piece
36:19of cognitive behavior therapy
36:21is not only talking about situations but actually doing
36:25and learning by doing
36:28she somebody that you would like to comment
36:31we set that up
36:33as program between us that that’s a good job over this week
36:38scan the next day or two in fact whatsoever because you don’t have too much time
36:42trip
36:43pretentious
36:45we’re interested
36:47yeah
36:48we’ve agreed to do it
36:53visions learned replace their negative anxious response to social situations with a more
36:58appropriate one
37:03the first step in getting better is often the hardest
37:06finding the courage to ask for help
37:10he’s going to have more than one in
37:12do these things you know
37:14can reduce the design actually i think you’re on the road
37:18too because you know
37:19not only that but just coming here
37:22and much of the way is very courageous
37:27desperation
37:28uh… you could call the desperation
37:31um… what do you feel bitter calling a desperation workers
37:35was gonna make you feel better
37:38the four th correct
37:40post-world
37:41lancaster demand people want to call without my memory of those things but uh… the feels
37:46desperate at this
37:49courageous securities
37:51craze
37:53say desperate
37:54desperate
37:55which feels good
37:57well none would steals more real with feels better
38:00pundit
38:01cruises feels better prime minister better saying with uh… mexico’s in
38:08but it feels desperate
38:11where you need to do
38:12uh… thinking
38:14is to start their own sing that night is day
38:17it’s desperate
38:20someone courageous
38:21they’re both correct
38:24but the other way skudra
38:26that they have to get
38:28misinformed management report that there will print
38:34community seem desperate and i think that will think about it is courageous
38:44just two months f_-fifteen cognitive behavioral therapy
38:48jennings start seeing results today i’m going to them so it was restoring because and that
38:54is something that has been hard for me to do in the past
39:01and daylight design
39:03progress nonzero
39:05social phobia
39:09just on the beach for instance things in store for you
39:14using a lot of techniques on narendhar their distancing doctor chain
39:20one that was that i was in a lot is just around
39:23mindless self interests in the fight and then
39:27feelings isn’t it has noticed that
39:32this is not
39:33grow
39:35digesting slow one
39:37business into st and member of the army
39:41gods
39:45texas it’s it’s
39:50was used as dot
39:51discontinue
39:54fluffy slightly
39:56office stands it seems that could be
40:00and another waging scope citizens sadie is by using the talent he’s have for years
40:05during his experiences and social anxiety dimensions
40:10flavorful with some writings saying right but you know looks like this is something
40:14i knew it was like to know each other side
40:17to cartoons on
40:32depreciate bill
40:33off says there is a
40:38different places
40:45websites that also deal with this song
40:47have with them
40:50feedback
40:53it’s good to see if the key
40:55that experiences danielle make funny cartoons
41:03you grafton
41:10how many people
41:12leave after years of living with uncertainty ham has also decided by view benetton
41:19for weeks and say since you guys i stare
41:21and said take indication continue cd
41:24social worker personal thing he was cut the checks eric the
41:27and should have some ups and downs
41:30today passed on to the here
41:33activity in those with florida
41:35with him
41:37it has been filled with fear didn’t go into the address and bosons twelve years
41:43and still scared to confront this man
41:47the day before i go
41:48trading to be interesting things to talk about it
41:51surrounding the winds are attacking him
41:54making something interesting to say
41:57canadian c_n_n_’s
41:59and that’s the case
42:01reason obviously in his hand some reasons and move
42:06and missed cannibalism might approach marston
42:10king which for the end of the people here for the study schedule
42:21definition
42:23is a bit of time a late start shaking
42:25boyd haggadah gave president idiots are getting nervous
42:33a little bit not
42:35nine years old
42:38giving and getting manner
42:44is able to get to this point in the press reinhardt mixed up and it’s everything really
42:48quickly and i like feeling that’s selling role and was probably mountain
42:54plants
42:55maneuver but not all of yes
43:12dinner hairdresser companies often last through the requirements for years
43:17you know that’s nine men and women on inside
43:21just filled with anxiety
43:27their pensions
43:30her laughter
43:38this is the first time in salina twelve years effect
43:42had actually really enjoyed being with us
43:44as opposed to
43:46think myself being nervous
43:48it’s a great feeling
43:53people without allotment starts
43:58their demonized
44:04for their style
44:07the
44:13michael and i thought he had
44:27ko
44:28syntax and it’s a listener that’s
44:32may sound everything has alot
44:39faces certificates on
44:47minimum two months later now hands the linden
44:52done
44:54men doing much better since last time i saw you
44:57philip and sense of my confidence back
45:00then unable to talk to people now are a couldn’t before day contemporary at one point one really
45:05make me very nervous and
45:07i would cancel more likely than from the party
45:10a much better with that high can talk to people even strangers debt public bank i have a long
45:18way to go on i have my ups the downs
45:20there we saw night
45:21feel myself getting back into that spiral again oh you’re bad bad bad
45:24but you just play itself out
45:26data medication go to the therapist indicated justin’s father
45:30no you can’t be friends of people you can be social
45:34you don’t have to hide in your house sometimes from society the psychiatry mark
45:38period there’s a way to get past this
45:41if liberating it your
45:46it’s been almost two years since the list of taking medication selected users
45:54care is senator medications reactor
45:57we were here
46:00in many cases however it remains a city at home here she became much more adventurous
46:09stealing
46:10times even anything outside town understands that
46:14denge isn’t he might have been on my team
46:18which is something we didn’t
46:19really really standards have been for we didn’t realize how through the inhibited she was
46:26since mean everyday life
46:29before existed on the issues and needs is amazing to see
46:34what she can do now versus what she couldn’t before
46:38but the biggest change in came in
46:39comes out of school
46:52in the class and kill a headsets
46:55really become a different idea of
46:57have bad even reach the senate different since seems to have completely maruthi lax
47:03and she ever has spent
47:04answer in that
47:06the last few years of school
47:11depicted
47:13snacks
47:14so much more with the
47:15edx past speaks with that
47:19in small
47:21doesn’t have to whisker
47:31provocations from a long way in here
47:33there’s still some areas that she needs to continue working
47:37quickly
47:37k
47:41interacting with the teacher
47:42can’t sometimes still insisted on death and now
47:47and sometimes some things happen that is the disparity census
47:51and then other times he lost and fan celeste for and friends here
47:57and her friend i’ll tell me
47:58you know the answer
48:01enlightening fan
48:03can expect a techniques to help him build comfortable with their teacher her parents
48:08make tapes of caleb reading at home
48:10but she shares with teacher isn’t it here
48:15fair lending and only where we need a lease
48:19by doing this to eventually easy linda speaking with the teacher drink lines dropping by nature
48:25being deterred
48:26talking out loud to the future interest rate cuts
48:29verbally
48:30sorry buddy
48:32may be extremely happy
48:34happening it’s realistic what happens in the year
48:36all but a she certainly unaware
48:40italy spain and have anthracite disposition about her standard and be able to
48:46waffenschmidt clash
48:47now cam here
48:49that just to have her being able to
48:53enacted speak freely with
48:55if anybody there late
48:57which is being echoed accomplishment for her
49:00he she can do it
49:01you know at what some of the same
49:05i found out
49:06about five years ago and
49:09twenty seven
49:12found outdoors name behind any sweatshop in bookstore and found the book holdings agian
49:18for the workbook
49:20and described my symptoms sec
49:24and then i started practicing some of the things that they recommended
49:28alarming what was happening to my body learning how to controllable spot at least symptoms
49:34and then also
49:35dealing with some of the mental thoughts that we’re going to make it more you contradicting
49:39themselves
49:43once chris started combining medication with his therapy
49:46he began to notice a change
49:48dating scene results for about six weeks
49:51butts home after six weeks all of us and i had this big meeting and who was with button
49:56the top two people in the company no i never
50:00a meeting with those two so it was like with these guys walk
50:05so i go to the meaning and i i just couldn’t believe and then i did not feel nervous at
50:09all
50:10at that point that’s where a new
50:12that the medications working for me
50:15and i’ve been on it for about a year now
50:17and i’m hoping
50:19in another six within the next six months are going to try it slowly get myself off
50:23of it
50:24and try to pick up on some of the therapy a little bit more
50:28for many socially conscious people
50:30like chris
50:32getting better he’s knocking down the law
50:33also of loneliness around
50:37when i first started to actually marry me
50:40when there’s something different something original
50:43stuck in the system she thought it might be effect any of its side
50:48i’m building across from
50:49my apartment
50:50select it’s a great idea so ended up making this big sign it was about thirty feet
50:57went over to the building across street from where my apartment at
51:01i went up there in started put this time together
51:05and the headline my sister and uh… her husband across the
51:09the way my apartment they’re filming tell me if he hits the stands
51:14was recorded natural spring brought a scares enough lol
51:20this data that they are
51:24going trolling for over twelve garments
51:29pointed out the signs pollens that’s
51:35the next to her and she said yes
51:38looking back that can never
51:40we have the opportunity
51:42to get married
51:43final relationship like this
51:46just doesn’t it
51:49five
51:50dentists
51:53madden a long way parent and me now just a little bit a day today
52:00mammograms
52:02there’s any other small towns in may
52:04estimate everything light well i’m a delivery address
52:08it says on such an israel and stand next
52:12daylight withdrawing
52:14money that’s been the one you realize that it’s a a linear
52:20congressional politicians and remembering
52:23and the fact that i still struggling and i don’t think in any way negate
52:28use the matter is that i’ve made a lot of the matter is that his novel then it’s only
52:32may be in the future though there’s no cure for social anxiety disorder
52:37treatment can make a difference
52:40was seventeen
52:41they’ll still have anxiety
52:42they may still have more anxiety than
52:45manager shmoe next order doesn’t have a problem with social anxiety
52:49but they have a very good chance of starring through a positive way along the road to doing
52:55those things that they haven’t been doing
52:58to doing it yes a great deal blessings i it even they started with
53:04and that’s a huge step four
53:08has barred continues to get better soon she hopes to help others in the process she and
53:14her husband greg has written a book
53:15painfully shy
53:17which gives patients information on how to cope
53:20with the disorder
53:21drake is like the best thing that that happened in the end
53:26we are eighteen
53:27i feel like he saved my life in
53:32came a returning
53:33is kind of symbolic to have
53:35the loneliness being over
53:39i want to people to know that there is hope and that don’t give up
53:43i mean if i did not
53:44has given me frank
53:46you know i was a teenager you know i would have final helps fraser the next ten years
53:52they don’t know that at a time
53:54i mean there’s so many times where i thought
53:57kill myself because i’m so miserable in one of my
53:59and at with met frank i was
54:03and jesse
54:06one of the things that strikes me as such as all the sauce potential in a group of people
54:11the kennedys her most sensitive and offer most caring
54:15so it’s like those are the people we need to get out
54:18it
54:28the prints and installation must find his
54:35for
54:36still to come inside and fear
54:38the student loans being afraid of
54:44there’s no greater field
54:46unknowingly
54:48differently
54:59or a separate from social anxiety disorder of quite a few years
55:03and since my treatment since unable to alleviate that problem from my life wax is so much more
55:08enjoyable now
55:09you don’t have to worry about what people are saying about it you don’t have to worry
55:12about people thinking it off of second guess what you’re going to say or do in public and
55:17think something’s gotta laugh at you
55:18because you can just be yourself
55:20and enjoy life
55:22made his mental health
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